Western cultures tend to be “death-denying and grief-avoiding” (Terra McDaniel). Walking with children and families through grief, loss, and death can be a challenging and important opportunity. The books, resources, and links on this page have been curated for church leaders and caregivers (parents, grandparents, guardians, etc.). If you have additional questions or have resources that would be helpful to add, please contact Kathy Pittenger.
Grief Support for Children and Families in Michigan
Ele’s Place (Lansing, Grand Rapids, Ann Arbor, Flint)
Gabby’s Grief Center (Monroe)
Children’s Grief Center (Midland)
Gilda’s Club (Grand Rapids)
Centrica Journeys: Support for Grieving Children (Southwest Michigan)
Lory’s Place (St. Joseph)
Michael’s Place (Traverse City)
Sandcastles (Metro Detroit)
Additional locations may be found at Children Grieve
Resources for Helping Children with Grief, Loss, and Death
National Alliance for Children’s Grief
- Ten Ways to Help a Grieving Child
- Understanding Childhood Grief
- Talk to Children about Death & Dying
- Talking to a Child or Teen to Let Them Know Someone has Died
- Talking About Grieving as a Family
- FAQ from Parents/Caregivers Raising Bereaved Children
The Dougy Center (National)
Helping Kids Grieve from Sesame Street in Communities
When Someone Your Child Loves Dies: A Guide from the Fred Rogers Center
Daniel Tiger Video “Blue Fish is Dead“
Resources from a Faith Perspective
When a Loved One Dies – Helping Children & Youth Cope with Death
In Time of Pain and Crisis: Helping Children Cope and Heal
Grief Resources from Rev. Dr. Leanne Hadley
The Golden Cord: A Gentle Way to Explain Death to Children by Rev. Dr. Leanne Hadley
“Big Emotions” Family Faith Playlists
Helping Children Grieve Zoom recording with guest speaker Terra McDaniel and slides
Recommended Children’s Books
The books below have been recommended by children’s ministry directors and professionals. Download the list.
